Sunday, 29 July 2007

The 27th December 1937 .. cont'd

Well, the car didn't disappear into Black Creek, but when Gordon and Lois did emerge from the manse, they found their car at the bottom of the hill securely wired to a second car parked in front of the community hall. (On the right is Avonton Presbyterian church as it looks today with the manse next door. The front window of the manse that can be seen to the left of the porch in this picture is the one through which Lois watched the car roll down the hill toward Black Creek.) Once Gordon as a newly married man, managed to extricate his car, he and Lois drove the 2 1/2 miles up to the 1st and 2nd concession and turned left to go to the McEwan homestead where Gordon's mother and father had lunch waiting. Lois' father Bob, and Laura Turner, in the meantime, returned home. Lunch consisted of salmon sandwiches and a sweet. Then, Gordon and Lois drove into Stratford where they were scheduled to catch the bus to London for the honeymoon. Since the car was needed at home Jack, Gordon's father rode into Stratford with them. As they drove down the Centre Gravel on their way to Stratford they met Earl Boyes, a neighbouring farmer who had previously dated Lois. (Earl had been married the year before to one of Gordon's many relatives in the area: Marie Ballantyne.) When he saw Earl's vehicle approaching, Jack ducked down in the back seat. "Good Lord, I don't want Boyes thinking I'm going on the honeymoon with you!" Gordon and Lois rode the bus to London and walked the three or four blocks to the Iroquois Hotel, then a prominent establishment on the north-west corner of Clarence and King Streets. During their two-day stay, Gordon spent considerable time on the phone to the various arenas asking for information on what sporting events were going on in the city. What he didn't realize was that every time he picked up the phone, he was adding to his hotel bill. For a guy who had a total of $100 for his entire honeymoon trip, and a wife who had absolutely no money, the bill which was presented at the end of their stay was a shocker. Somehow the bill got paid, but I would imagine that it was at this point that Gordon realized that he was a long way from Downie Township.

Tuesday, 17 July 2007

27 December 1937


No pictures of the wedding. None were taken. Here is how Lois tells the story: Gordon was teaching at Black Creek School. His Christmas school vacation gave them just enough time for a wedding and a short honeymoon. But, of course, all of this had to happen after the 25th because Lois was responsible for organizing Christmas for her father, and her six siblings. On the 25th, which was a Saturday, Lois cooked a Christmas dinner for the family, and two guests: elderly, unmarried, second cousins - David and Rachael Fulcher -- who always were invited for the Christmas meal. On the next day, the 26th, Gordon came to visit. It was snowing hard and the roads quickly became impassible. Lois' father Bob suggested that Gordon stay the night. The morning of the 27th was clear and Gordon left right after breakfast to drive home by way of Conroy and # 7 Highway where the roads were more likely to be clear. Lois got the breakfast ready and then did up the dishes before she got herself ready, without, of course, the aid of a bathroom or running water. (She also must have packed some type of bag for the wedding trip, but I have never heard what it was or what it contained.) Lois' Aunt Minnie (George's wife) came to stay with the youngest children, Vic being 7 and Roberta 5. Then father Bob drove Lois and Laura Turner (a friend of the family who was to be the second witness) to Avonton where Lois and Gordon had arranged to be married by Rev. Samuel Kerr in the front room of the manse of Avonton Presbyterian Church . The young couple, the two witnesses, and the minister were all that were present. The minister's study in the manse at Avonton Presbyterian Church faces west overlooking the Centre Gravel road which runs north through the village leading to Sebringville. In front of the church, the road follows a gentle decline down to the bridge over Black Creek. Rev. Kerr, performing the wedding ceremony, stood with his back to the window, Bible in hand. Gordon's car was parked outside on the road. As the vows were being said, Lois could see Elizabeth Robertson and several others hurrying up the road. Then, as Lois looked at the minister to repeat her vows, and beyond him to the scene outside, she could see Gordon's car rolling silently down the hill toward Black Creek. Gradually the car rolled out of view and disappeared to the right behind the curtain of the minister's study.
.... to be continued

Saturday, 14 July 2007

Authors Wanted!

Hello everyone - Jessica here.

I'd like to extend an invite to all in the family who have been following our blogging process. Would any of you like to become authors on Dicksons' Corners? All you need to do is let me know you're interested, and I'll send you an invitation to become an author and help you navigate the process of blogging with blogspot.

At the moment we have four authors - Bob, me, and most recently, Lou and John (welcome, you two!). This project was intended to be collaborative, and as long as your content is somehow related to Lois, Gordon, or the family, you can write about it here!

Leave a comment or give me a call and I'll get back to you. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Sunday, 8 July 2007




On July 7, 2007, I visited Lois McEwan in St. Marys, because I wanted to sort out some details about the dicksoncorners blogspot with Bob and Jessica. Jessica and Carlos had just returned from a visit to Carlos' family in his homeland of Cuba. The photographs from Cuba were tinged with Carlos's nostalgia of the surroundings of his youth and his double pride in professing his dual citizenship of Cuba and Canada.


With part of the afternoon to spare, I did a quick tour of St Marys, "The Town Worth LIVING IN." I visited my old friend, Ray Bennett, took some picture of him in front of his store; he's been there for 49 years but it is still A.Y.Lofft and Co. with Fred Lofft and Jimmy Pine handling the Men's Store side of the business.


I drove down Water Street to glance over once again at the wonderful improvements made to 105 Water, my youthful home.


And then, I decided that I should visit an old friend of mine and my family; in fact, an old friend of many people in St.Marys, Elinor Murphy. I say 'Elinor' rather than 'Eleanor' because I happened to glance at a Teeswater Reunion button on her door which said, "Elinor Thompson."


Mrs. Murphy was not at home because she was playing bridge at Kingsway, according to her daughter, Frances. Introducing myself, Frances said that she might have recognized me if I had shaved off my beard. I knew several of the older children of the Murphy family, but not the more recent (relatively) arrivals.


After making the connections, Frances said that she certainly remembered her favouite teacher from St.Marys Ddistrict Collegiate Institute, Mr. McEwan.


With that said, she raised her arms, placed her hands behind her head, and alternately rippled her biceps.


I ask you,"Does that moment of reminiscence ring true of Mr. McEwan?"